I treat it as a sacred thing because I'm quite a spiritual person. So when I'm doing it I have candles and incense burning ...I don't really like to look at erotica or porn or anything like that. I kind of just be within myself and have a proper connection within me. I was kind of put off by toys for quite a long time ...but then I discovered that not all toys are intimidating, you can get nice, kind of little cute ones. Pink ones are quite girly and I realized it was okay to use them sometimes.
