I'm quite specific about the conditions to be in to have an orgasm. I've found that I need to be laying on my back. I normally need to have my legs spread in a certain way. I can use either hand, but I definitely prefer using my left I've tried being on all fours or being on my side but I find I can't relax enough I sometimes will watch porn but I would say nine times out of 10, I just use whatever fantasies I have in my head memories of things that I have done or seen fabrications, things that I want to do