I was lucky enough that I had really open friends, and so we kind of discussed it, talked about what we did it doesn't usually involve a pillow. So I started going for it with my hands, except again, as I was still pretty new to the game... it took me quite a few tries to realize that I was actually putting the finger up the less frequently used hole, let's say. But it worked, and I still do like to sometimes do a bit of teasing. A little bit of anal play can always be fun. I guess I've been into it since day one.
